X-Ray: Pergamum, Day 2

Learning from yesterday, I decided to read a book last night.  What happened you say?  Well, I was speaking about being careful what influences us and I had a moment when I was not paying attention to what was influencing me.  Not this day.  So I started a book.  I thought, "I need to be careful what is influencing me, especially at night when I'm tired and my guard is down."  So last night I went to my personal library and looked through the titles.  I have some great books on my shelf but nothing was really sticking out for me.  Then I found it.  I remember wanting to read this book but everytime I thought about it, I was terribly busy and wouldn't be able to get to it yet.  Until now.

The book is called "Uprising."  I took this book off the shelf and began my journey through it.  So far, this book is focused on helping people experience the life that God intended them to experience.  We get used to the mundane and live there.  God has so much more for us and will we take Him up on the journey.

That reminds me of the time when Jesus invites the disciples on a journey.  He would be with them forever even though they wouldn't be able to see His face.  Read about it in Matthew 28:16-20 or click to view http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+28%3A16-20&version=NIV (Click back arrow on web browser to return)

They were going on a journey to tell others about Jesus.  There will be some that will accept this good news and others who will reject.  Some will grow deep in their relationship with Christ and others will walk away.  And He will be with us the whole way.

But you have a choice to join Him on the journey or play it safe in the mundane.  So what will you choose to do?

That is the power of a good book.  This book has influenced me in one chapter. How will it impact me in chapter two.  But this couldn't have happened unless I cared about what was influencing me.

Do you care about the influences around you?  You should.  Take control and make sure a positive influence is on your shelf.

As you close:  Ask God to point out a book in the bible that He would want you to read and/or a book that would impact you in a specific area.  Ask Him.  He'll answer.

God Bless!

X-Ray: Pergamum, Day 1

Yesturday I had a Homer Simpson moment.  You know when he realizes he did something stupid and he says, "D'oh!!"  I was watching a show on Netflix and some language was being used that I find inapproapriate.  I let it go and my wife walked into the room and commented about it.  After a moment, I came to the conclusion, "Yeah. She's right.  Time to shut it off."

During church our pastor was talking about influence.  He was saying that we influence others by what we are influenced by.  That pastor is me.  I  remember what i said, but the problem was, I wasn't living it out. 

Do you ever catch yourself in moments like that?  I know I shouldn't be watching this or doing that or saying something inapproapriate.  It doesn't matter what you know.  What is matters is what you do with what you know.  Thank God for do overs.

The disciples had a moment like that.  They said something that Jesus did not like.  He even rebuked them for saying it.  Read about it in Luke 9:51-56 or click to view http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke+9%3A51-56&version=NIV (Click back arrow on web browser to return)

Really?  Call down fire on them?  What they were saying was, "They should be killed. Eliminated."  Jesus had been teaching them about love and mercy and this is what the disciples come away with.  This was the disciples "D'oh!!" moment.  Open mouth insert foot moment. 

But the good news it, they moved on.  Jesus gave them a second chance.  They would need a lot more when this journey was over and Jesus was full of fresh starts.

Be careful who is influencing you.  And when someone points out a dangerous influence, listen to them.  Think about it.  And start over fresh.

As you close:  Ask God if there is anything in your life that is bad influence.  We become blind to those influences and we need His help to discover them.

God Bless!

28 Days of Loving - Day 5

I'm sure many of you have watched the Toy Story movies with your kids, or grandkids, or even for yourself.  They are fantastic movies.

During the first movie, the audience is introduced to a child named Sid.  Sid is an evil boy.  He loves to play with toys, but he loves to destroy and recreate toys even more.   Sid is the villian in the movie. He makes parents think, "If he were my child, he would be disciplined."

Children are precious to all of us.  Our children's future is especially important to us.  We want our children to grow up and be valued members of society.  To use their talents to better our society and to raise a family to do the same.  To love God and live for Him.  So, how are we doing with these goals?

Proverbs 22:6 says, "Train up a child in the way they ought to go and when they are old, they will not turn from it."  Our job is to train them up.  To train means to discipline.  To teach and guide them in what is right and good.  It is our job to parent them.

Moses tells us how to train them up to love God.  Read about it in Deuteronomy 6 or click to view http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy+6&version=NIV (Click back arrow on web browser to return)

Talk about God when you sit down in the privacy of your own home.  Talk about God on the road when you are out and about in society.  Talk about God through out your day, when you rise and when you go to sleep.  God is meant to be in your whole day.  That is how you instill a love for God in your children.

Too often parents keep God in the church building.  Couldn't He come into your home?  When was the last time you prayed together?  Read the Bible together? Talked about Godly things together?  Talked about His wisdom in making good decisions?

As you close:  Thank God for children and thank Him for the privilege in parenting.  Ask Him for His help to raise them to love Him completely.  Ask for His help in talking about Him at home and at various moments in life.

God Bless!

28 Days of Loving - Day 4

My wife and I were at a wedding this past Fall.  Some old friends were getting married and they had asked Tiffany and I to join them for the ceremony.  We accepted their invite and had a weekend getaway from all of our responsibilities.

At lunch, prior to the wedding, Tiffany and I got into an arguement.  Suffice it to say, we were not in too good of a mood and then to head off to a wedding made it worse.  I'm sure she was thinking, "How can I warn the bride of the impending doom she is about to commit to?"  I was thinking, "I hope he has a lot of patience.  He is going to need it." 

At the reception, which is where this picture was taken, I was reminded again of my own wedding day.  Almost 15 years ago, Tiffany and I were in the same shoes of these two newlyweds.  She is a wonderful woman even though she has bad days.  I hope the same can be said of me.  We were dancing on the dance floor, yes I know how to cut a good rug, and I had one of those moments.  The kind of moments when the world stops and you thank God for the spouse whom God brought to you.  The argument faded and the ride home was much more sweet.  All in all, it was a good weekend.

But, am I the kind of husband God wants me to be?  His Word explains a few thoughts about marriage.  Read Ephesians 5:22-33 or click to view http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians+5%3A22-33&version=NIV (Click back arrow on web browser to return)

God tells us to love our wife and for a woman to submit to her husband.  This is the love and respect principle in marriage.

How are you doing with this?  If you are brave, consider asking your spouse how they feel you are doing.  It may open up a new avenue of dialogue that you've never had before.

As you close:  Thank God for your spouse and ask for His help to be the kind of spouse He longs for you to be.

God Bless!

28 Days of Loving - Day 3

Did you know that there are millions of bacteria located in your mouth?  Yuck! Sorry if you are eating and reading this.

The purpose of those bacteria is to help your body digest the food you are eating.  Even though it causes your mouth to be unclean, it does actually help things along.  According to Dr. Oz, vegetarian mouths are cleaner because those who eat meat leave it between their teeth which feeds the bacteria.  Kissing actually transfers bacteria to the other person and they start growing in a new place.  Think about that the next time you kiss your spouse.

But I'm not talking about bacteria of the mouth today.  I'm talking about respecting what goes in and what goes out of it. 

The things you say are quite powerful.  They have the power to heal and the power to destroy.  They have the power to build up or tear down.  Your heart is on display when you speak.

Jesus talked about this in Matthew 12:33-37 or click to view  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+12%3A33-37&version=NIV (Click back arrow on web browser to return)

Jesus cares about what is coming out of your mouth.  If you really understand how God loves you, you will learn to care for your mouth.  You will care about the words you use.  You will think through your words. 

Have you ever regretted saying something?  Wish you could take it back? We all have.  We may have been right or maybe we were wrong.  Regardless, words are powerful and should be considered carefully.

So when your boss is frustratingyou, or your children are testing you, or a friend is challenging you, consider your words carefully.  They reveal the heart. 

As you close:  As God for His help to control your tongue.  To speak the truth in love.  To say what is needed at the moment.

God Bless!

28 Days of Loving - Day 2

This past Sunday I was talking about how the love God has for us changes our view of ourselves.  At least it should. When we truly realize that God values us as special and sacred, it should change the way we look at ourselves.

Are we allowing the things of this world to damage our value?  I Corinthians 6:19 says that we are the temple of the Holy Spirit.  Because of this, we should honor God with our bodies.

That means we should care about what we allow our eyes to see.

Do you remember that song, "Oh be careful little eyes what you see..."  Already you are singing that song in your head.  Well, this simple nursery rhyme is a powerful song.  Why? Because we should be careful what our eyes ponder on. 

This week the new cover of the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue came out.  All the talk is about the new girl on the cover page.  She may be a beautiful woman who is dressed in a very revealing swimsuit.  But do I really need to be looking at her like that?  Is that good for my mind?  Is that good for my image of my wife?  Will I be thinking of her instead of my wife?  All because I took a peek at a Magazine cover.

God wants you to be careful with what you look at.  He knows how impressionable our minds are just by simply looking around us. Learn from King Davids mistake.

Read 2 Samuel 11 or click to view http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+Samuel+11&version=NIV (Click Back Arrow on web browser to return)

David's eyes caused a great problem.  Did he flinch when he saw her bathing?  Did he try to walk away? Did he justify his thoughts?

Oh be careful little eyes what you see...David was not careful with his eyes and the thing he did, displeased the Lord.

I want to please the Lord with my eyes.  So I need to guard them.  I need to be thinking ahead so that I can protect them.  Are you doing the same?

As you close: Ask God for his help to keep your eyes pure from the filth in this world.  Ask God to give you wisdom to know what is good to look at and what is not. 

God Bless!

28 Days of Loving - Day 1

During the month of February, we will be talking about love.  I know that sounds so cheesy, but hey, we be cheesy at least once.

We all have a need to love and be loved.  Many flower shops and candy stores see their revenue go up just because of this need within each of us.  Every February, commercials flood the airwaves to remind us of our duty as husbands.  What do you do for your wife, obviously if you are married, for Valentine's day?

My wife is lucky to get anything from me before Valentines Day.  I wait until the day after and get it 50% off.  While most people have moved on, I'm expressing love to my wife and saving money at the same time.  I hope she finds it as romantic as I do.  Giving is an act of love and it doesn't matter when you give it.

God gave something very precious to us to show us how much He loved us.  He sent His Son to live here and to die for us.  Read about it in I John 4:7- 21 or click to view http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+John+4%3A7-21&version=NIV  (Click back arrow on web browser to return)

The kind of love that God showed us is different than we are used to.  We understand romantic love and brotherly love.  But we have no idea what Divine love is all about.

This is the kind of love He came to give us.  This kind of love is unconditional, unselfish, and sacrificial.  We would never know this kind of love unless God showed it to us first.  That is how special this kind of love is.

And when you exprience this kind of love, John writes that your heart will be complete.  His love is totally satisfying.

So how do I experience this kind of love?  By surrendering your heart to Jesus.  By asking Jesus to forgive you of your sin and live in your heart.  When you believe it and tell it to Jesus, the Bible says the Holy Spirit will come and live in your heart and you will know first hand the Divine love God wants you to have.

Do you have this divine love? Surrender to Jesus today.

As you close:  Thank God for His Divine love and ask Him today who you can share that love with.

God Bless!